When you are writing your vows, you want to incorporate the little things like your first meeting, the moment you fell in love, the inside jokes, just things that make you guys the couple you are. When you are reading your vows, you want it to not only get to you and to your spouse but to the audience as well. To capture the most beautiful moments, not only would you want to hire a wedding videographer but hiring a wedding photographer would also be ideal. A wedding photographer can capture the simple moments such as the first kiss, someone laughing, or even someone crying because of how touched they are during the ceremony.
When it comes to actually saying your vows, you have three options: 1) You can memorize your vows; 2) You can read them right off the paper, or 3) You can have the officiator read your vows to the two of you. Most couples choose to read them themselves using the note method. When you start out writing your vows, some people choose to look up other people's vows just to get an idea on what they may want to incorporate in their vows. If you are having a hard time writing your vows, you may want to take a look at some of the examples that we have included here. You can take them word for word, or change a few things to make them your own.